I'm not afraid to admit anymore that, when I do find my future Diaper Lover (DL) Ms. Right, I would like for her to make sure I'm on the right path, even if that means my butt is sore from a good spanking occasionally. Especially if say my apartment is a mess and I've not cleaned it like I should.
Which is messy at present, and every time I get the urge to clean, I'm overwhelmingly tired, and I don't WANT to do it. With the right lady in my life, whether I WANT to clean up would be irrelevant if I'd like to keep my behind from getting a belt whoopin' with my own belt! I mean, that shit sounds painful, even just to think about it, but the humiliating part would be when my future Diaper Lover Ms. Right would be using my own leather belt across my ass as a punishment. The way I figure it is like this: Yes, spankings can be fun, but NOT when used for a punishment.
So, the terms would be like so:
1. If I or my future Diaper Lover Ms. Right don't do like either of us are supposed to, i.e. cleaning up, doing college assignments, that sort of thing, then the spankings are punishment.
But.....
2. If we just want or need "play time", then spankings are for fun! 😎👍😊💔
The key though is to be sure neither of us cross where the punishment spankings become abusive, and the last thing I want for myself or my future Diaper Lover Ms. Right is to become anything like my parents, especially my late alcoholic drug-abuser father. I want to make that one thing clear.
But, I admit that having "motivation" from a diaper lover Ms. Right would be extremely helpful, but she has to be able to give as well as receive a spanking. I'm sure I'll find her soon, and I hope she will be my Turanga Leela from Futurama. I really love that series, especially the series finale season episode "Game of Tones" where the principal cast including Leela were wearing "dream pants" aka adult diapers.
